Friday, 14 April 2017

5 Reasons Why you should Love your Haters




I am pretty sure we're all familiar with the phrase "kill them with Kindness" or "Love your haters". The problem with this is that people tell you to do these things without telling you Why?. It's not easy to love someone who clearly doesn't like you, and to be kind to someone who gossips about you, especially since you don't even know why you're doing so. 
Well, I'm here to let you know why you should love your haters. Yep, you heard it, Love your Haters.

Wednesday, 12 April 2017

25 Things to Cheer You up Instantly


 

Having a rough day? Feeling frustrated or maybe you're feeling down. Whatever it is, feeling sad or angry is such a horrible state to be in and you just want to cheer up as fast as you can. Here are 25 things you can do to do just that:
  1. Take in a deep breath -Deep breathes calm you
  2. Yawn- It rejuvenates the brain
  3. Smile for 10 seconds
  4. Hug someone or something (a tree, your cat, your book, yourself!)
  5. Look at a beautiful picture (island, memory

Signs that Someone is Trying to Character Assassinate you



Do you feel like someone is trying to sabotage you?

Personal sabotage and Character assassination are basically synonymous. According to Google, Character assassination is the malicious and unjustified harming of a person's good reputation. It is when a person or people try destroy your credibility by making others view you negatively and dislike/hate you. This is a procedure that is not overnight but a gradual process that the target only begins to realize when there are symptoms. This article will help you see the build-up, symptoms and let you know if you are dealing with a PCA (Potential Character Assassin).

Tuesday, 11 April 2017

15 Things to do to Self-Recover





 
   





























Whether it is from a mental or emotional breakdown, an ended relationship, a bad friendship, a lousy job or maybe the wound you’ve been avoiding that has been recently getting you down, recovery is necessary.

Everyone owes themselves the time and effort to pick themselves up again and refresh their life view but the question is how? New habits. Yes, habits are more powerful than you realize. Let me enlighten you on this truth:

Saturday, 1 April 2017

Why You Should Forgive










We live in a world full of imperfect and hurting people and sadly the most common trait of hurting people is to hurt others. It is a domino effect and only those who are wise enough to forgive are the ones that don't to get knocked down. 
Movies and media constantly perpetuate they revenge scenarios; getting back at bullies, a slap back at the ex-best friend, revenge on exes. I’ll admit, sometimes seeing people get their medicine feels good at first but after it’s all said and done, it’s all in vain. Causing a person pain will NOT heal the pain they have caused you, only forgiveness will.

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